Wednesday, November 14, 2012

The Legacy of a Child in an Open Adoption

Found this and thought I'd share....


The Legacy of a Child in an Open Adoption

By Brenda Romanchick

Once there were two expectant mothers.
One carried and cared for you beneath her beating heart
She became your Birthmother.


The other carried the hope of you within her.
She became your Mom.


As the days passed, and you grew bigger and stronger,
Your Birthmother knew that she could not give you all you needed after
your birth.


Meanwhile, your Mom was ready and waiting for you.

One day your Birthmom and your Mom found each other.
They looked into each other’s eyes and saw a friend.

Your Birthmom saw the life your Mom could give you.
Your Mom saw how much your Birthmom loved and cared for you.

They decided that what you needed was both kinds of love in your life.

So now you have two families,
One by birth, the other by adoption.


And you have a home where you can get:
your questions answered,
your boo boos bandaged,
your heartaches soothed,
And much needed hugs.


And a place where you can find:
answers to your questions,
your image in the mirror,
a part of yourself,
And much needed hugs.


Two different kinds of families
Two different kinds of love
Both a part of you.

Monday, October 29, 2012

Short and To the Point!

I will write more later with more details, but right now it's just he facts and lots of pictures.

Finished my challenge on Monday, October 22nd

Then the next day Riley Davis was born at 6:39pm weighing 9 lbs 5 oz and was 21.5 inches long!








Friday, October 19, 2012

7 To Go

As usual I have procrastinated....meaning there are 4 more days of my challenge and 7 more yoga classes. I am actually fine with this right now. Jeff is working all weekend, my mom is headed out of town, seems like everyone has plans this weekend....so its a good thing I have all this yoga to do to keep myself busy!

Why must I keep myself busy, you may be asking. M, our expectant mom we are matched with, who is due November 3rd, might actually be induced early on the 30th. Of course he could also decide to come at any point before then. So lots of yoga...to keep the antzies at bay!

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

The Count Downs Continue!

Only 10 more yoga classes to finish before next Monday, October 22nd!!!

I'm seeing light at the end of the tunnel....

Thursday, October 11, 2012

16 Classes To Go!

Lots of count downs are beginning to happen these days.

For my yoga challenge I have 16 classes to go....but I must confess I only have 12 days to do them in....which means in the next couple of weeks or so I'll have to do more than 1 class a day!

I am ready for this challenge to be finished!

Thursday, September 27, 2012

Days 29 Through 34

Most of these classes have been pretty smooth sailing. There is the occasional hiccup in class like the same teacher 2 days in a row,

(when class is ssooo structured with the same poses etc, the teacher is the only non-constant...so having the same one twice isn't something I prefer....of course there are much worse things in the world.....famine, disease....but I digress)

having demonstrations in class,

(come on already lets get going with the rest of the postures...it might sounds weird to some but I don't want to get too cooled off....and that's not a hot yoga joke ;) )

things of that nature. These sort of things bothers me in class, but not enough where I remember after the class is over.

Last night's class sticks out from the classes of late. First, I put off class until the absolute last minute. The last class of the day starts at 8:15. All evening, after I got home from work, I had an on-going mental conversation with myself about what class to go to, or even if I should take the day off. That is actually possible, but then you have to do 2 classes in one day to catch up, YUCK!  It was touch and go all evening until about 7:55 when I get a text from my mom telling me she worked out earlier and felt so great!

WELL CRAP!!! I had pretty much convinced myself to NOT go to class. Then I made the mistake of texting her back telling her I needed inspiration to get myself to yoga...and of course she was happy to oblige. At this point I felt that I should go to class....getting there with about 5 minutes to spare.

I walk in the door practically stomping like a sullen child and mumble something about how its a miracle that I'm there.....like they are supposed to kiss my boots because I dained to show up to class.

One of my saving graces was when I saw Kristen was teaching the class...yeah!!

Of course at the end of class I was extremely proud of myself for getting there. But that was after having to use HERCULEAN SIZE focus and determination not to slap the lady next to me who COULD NOT stay still! It didn't matter if we were in a posture or between postures, she was twisting and turning and wiping and touching her face and stretching and swaying her hips, etc, etc. And in the grumpy mood I was in because I HAD to come to class it was SSSOOO hard to relax! I finally did and let go as much as I could. I totally understand and (most of the time) have empathy for newer people who aren't used to the heat or the structure of the class, but last night the amount of empathy I had could have fit on the head of a pin.

By the floor series I could tune her out for the most part. And as I mentioned, at the end of class I was glad I went (mainly because that meant I didn't have to do a double at a later date ;) )