WE'RE MATCHED!!!!
But I have a feeling the few people that read this blog probably already know that. Had my first phone call with M around the beginning of July and for me it seemed like a good "fit" from the get-go. Then when Jeff was able to talk with her and in the middle of their conversation he mouthed "she's perfect" I got chills.
I heard and read about other potential AP couples experiences, about being comfortable and feeling a special connection. And I held out and truly hoped it would happen that way for us, but I don't think I really thought that it would feel that way...until it did.
I'm not saying it's perfect, I've had moments of doubt. Not doubt about our thoughts and feelings about M, but doubt that she would stay confident in her decision about choosing us. But so far when that's happened I've heard from M and she seems to say the exact right thing to make me feel better. Which seems weird to me, shouldn't I be the one supporting her not the other way around?
For now I am getting the feeling it's time to start communicating the important things a little better. So far I've purposefully not been to pushy, I don't want to over step or say the wrong thing. But I can see how that might be taken as us not being excited or open or trusting of M. So we might as well lay it all out on the table so everyone knows where everyone else is coming from. then we will know where those boundaries are and trust that if we over step them M will let me know.
DUE DATE: Sometime around the end of October or beginning of November
IT'S A BOY!
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